The Law of Appreciation
When leaders are complimentary in their mind towards their group, staff, vendors, family, etc. then discord can be easily disintegrated. The energy of the leader at the top is the energy of all the people below. A thought of anger permeates the entire organization and is just like putting a cog in the wheel of productivity. Frustration energy is like putting battery acid on your computer.
Every time you appreciate the person who works with you and for you is like putting grease in the gears. The energy of appreciation is as if you are creating the ability for errors to diminish and fears most people have of not doing something right. Appreciation is like a course correction when the situation is off course.
How to use the energy of appreciation:
1. Think about those people in your life who are there for you. This is particularly important when you’ve been difficult towards others. Give mental appreciation for the fact they are there. You may even want to go so far as sending an email or a note of gratitude.
2. Take responsibility for your responses and actions and correct the energy before it becomes rampant and destroys your organization.
3. When criticizing use an even tone, tap your heart center to be more soft and clear in your communications and do not assume you are the one that’s right. Ask questions and get into the energy of curiosity of what is going on and why it’s not working the way your head energy thinks it should.
4. Look for things that are going right rather than looking for what’s wrong with everything.
The more you give appreciation for someone who is on the path of progress rather than criticism. Appreciation energy is going to create the workplace and employees that you ultimately wish to have.
No More Procrastination
One of the most energy sapping things you can do is procrastinate. But how to stop is the real issue.
Here are some sure fire ways to end that nagging issue or procrastinating.
Past – Avoiding things works because it may cause fear, anxiety and just feel bad. I’m not doing something right or won’t do it right anyway so I’ll avoid doing it at all.
Solution – anxiousness is just fight or flight and fear is something I can push through and have a victory on the other side.
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Past – It has to be perfect. I don’t want to do anything unless it’s perfect. I’ll get in trouble if it’s not perfect.
Solution – Do the best you can as that is perfection in itself. Perfection is just a tactic to stop myself from moving forward. It really is much easier than it is in your head.
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Past – Failure is death and I must not fail. I won’t do it because I might fail. If I do succeed it would be a miracle and miracles just don’t happen to me.
Solution – It is good to be human. Humans have been failing for millenea and your failure is actually your reward to a much better situation because you have failed before and you are still alive.
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Past – I shouldn’t have to. I’ve already gained experience in so many areas and I just shouldn’t have to, so I won’t. if it feels uncomfortable I shouldn’t have to do it. I only want happy and fun.
Solution – All you need is 20 seconds of courage. Sometimes doing things I need to do is a fantastic feeling. The sooner it’s done the sooner I get to my fun. Might as well have fun sooner.
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Past – It doesn’t feel right. The stars, moon and right time just haven’t shown up and if I wait it will show up.
Solution – Waiting is over the time is NOW. Your fear and anxiety are fantastic excuses to wait but doing it now is the exact right time. If you are in fear you are in the future. Get grounded, get it done and move one. Life will be that much more rewarding and fun.
How Much Is Your Energy Really Worth?
As you walk through life it is often wondered how I fit in, what is my mission, what is my purpose, and how can I earn more money. These thoughts get bantered around our heads a lot. Mostly when we are feeling low, down, or just plain stuck.
Being stuck is truly a sign of how little value we place on our selves, our ideas, our options, our abundance that we already have. Settling is just a bad habit that has been trained into our psyche and is an excuse to stay in a situation that doesn’t work for us.
Scientists have, at one time, calculated that we were valued at $32 in the chemical market. Today I believe those numbers would be somewhat greater but overall we often do not value our selves even that much. If we did then some of those brilliant ideas floating around would come to fruition.
I recently read a line somewhere that stated the energy in our body could light the United States. What I discovered is that studies were done where a DuPont scientist said that the atoms of your body contain the potential energy of more than 11 million kilowatt hours per pound. So the overall estimate is that the average person is worth $85 billion dollars. Wow, we’ve so undervalued ourselves.
Some of us now and then tend to wonder what our mission in this life is, especially when we feel down, and we do not recognize how valuable a human being we really are. We come up with some great ideas, but feel they are not that good. If they were, someone else would come up with them. It’s too bad that, almost always, we place little values on our selves and ideas.
The value we place on ourselves come from external standards. Parents, media, and The Joneses help us place standards on ourselves. Begin to think, every day, I am valuable just as I am. You will find that new opportunities arise at the least expected moments.
The electronics in our body are really just energy and we can turn it off or we can turn it on. That energy can be directed in positive ways or negative ways. By directing that energy into a positive avenue you have less friction. For example you feel worried by all the media hype around the economy. What then happens is that you attract worry energy around you. I often tell mother’s of my youngest clients (kids) to turn the television off for 2 months and see how the behavior of that child changes. Miraculous changes occur and they are more energetic and happier. When we are happier and without so much friction we value ourselves more.
Leave out the external electronics in your world for a week and see what wonderful things occur. Eliminate the electrical items in your bedroom alone and you will sleep much better. Stop listening to the radio while driving and you will arrive at your destination much more easily and actually calmly. The friction will decrease and the value increases. Energy can then flow more easily.
Your energy body will thank you and actually increase because you are leaving out external forces. When your energy body is more fluid your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual self is more healthy and vibrant. This is one reason nature is so good for us. It’s about the energy that we are absorbing from nature but it is also about the body recouping by being un-plugged.
Value your energy and your value goes up. Learn that there are methods where you can actually master your energy.



