The Key Ingredient To Every Successful Romantic Relationship
A relationship between two people with a servant-heart is likely to thrive…
A relationship where your happiness is your central goal is likely to run into rough ground. The bottom line of a relationship should instead be service – to your partner.
When the prime criteria for the quality of your relationship is your partner’s happiness, you are likely to have a more meaningful alliance.
Happiness Cannot Be The Bottom Line Of Relationships
We have been sold this idea that our happiness is important and if we are unhappy, it is acceptable (in fact encouraged), to blame our partner and part ways.
The idea is not foreign to those in the corporate world. You hire a new employees and test their output against the company’s expectations. If the bottom-line is self-profit, this transactional relationship fits well. But romantic relationships are doomed to failure if they operate on a transactional level. Your partner is not someone you choose based on how happy they can make you.
Rather, your partner is someone who makes you the least unhappy.
The Little Things Matter In A Relationship
Shift the focus away from your happiness and start serving your partner. You don’t have to be a doormat and say yes to their every demand.
Often it is the little things that make a big difference…
Buying them flowers, making their favorite meal as a surprise, leaving a cute message for them on the bathroom sink, doing their laundry, sending them messages during the day to remind them how lucky you are…
When you place your partner’s needs first, the focus shifts from your happiness to the collective happiness in the relationship.
What is one little thing you can do today to make your partner’s day special?
Sheevaun Moran is a business advisor, master coach, quantum energy thought leader and the founder of Energetic Solutions. She uses business principles with energetic techniques to help more than 25,000 entrepreneurs, CEOs and leaders bring instant focus and shifts to clarity, purpose, and profits.
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