What is the main reason for people choosing to be in a relationship?
The answers are varied. Happiness, commitment, physical intimacy, family, security…
Above all, relationships offer companionship. The fear of being lonely drives people to search for a partner.
These answers transfer the responsibility of your emotional well-being to other people.
Your emotional health becomes dependent on another human being’s behavior. Consequently, you cannot control how they treat you.
PRACTICE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
Since the only person you have full control over is yourself…
Practicing love of self and of others does not involve dumping your needs on someone else.
Instead, focus on:
- How your efforts and responsibilities can make the relationship better.
- How your partner’s benefits from being in a relationship with you.
Love is a choice. Choose to love.
RELATIONSHIPS WORK BETTER WHEN YOU GIVE
Too many people focus on what they can get from a relationship instead of the other way around.
Focusing on your expectations is probably going to make your love conditional. You will be happy based on what your partner does for you. Instead, take responsibility for your own emotional needs and wellbeing.
And then, invest time and effort in meeting your partner’s needs.
Sheevaun Moran is a business advisor, master coach, quantum energy thought leader and the founder of Energetic Solutions. She uses business principles with energetic techniques to help more than 25,000 entrepreneurs, CEOs and leaders bring instant focus and shifts to clarity, purpose, and profits.
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